It is depressing to see how many marriages end up in divorce every day. At present, not even older couples seem to be able to steer away from divorce.
The question that should arise in our minds is: what's going on? Nobody is willing to work around their own limits or willing to admit their own faults in the debacle of their lives. Mostly everyone is thinking of themselves. Today's society teaches people to be egocentric, where everything and everyone has to revolve around them.
The problem is that humans were not created to be self sufficient and to live on their own. We achieve our best, and learn to be better, when we start thinking less about ourselves and focus more on others: our families, our social environment, our places of work, and of course, our spouses.
Given these facts, it is easy to realize that the problem with today's marriages is that everyone wants the other to change. A typical attitude is "everyone else is guilty but me," and nobody wants to give in. Actually many couples enter into marriage with the fixed thought that if it doesn't work, they can always split and go separate ways, as if nothing happened. The reality is totally different, in that plenty has happened which has left quite a mark on those lives.
It is clear, then, that the objective of this blog is to help those who are willing to save their marriages, their families, their children and their lives.
The building blocks of a good society are good families, and good families develop with good couples.
